Volume IX, Issue 14
April 1, 2020
Dear ,
Happy National Poetry Month! And Happy April Fool's Day, even if you, like me, may not feel very light-hearted.
It did make me smile, when I talked to my daughter today, to hear about the April Fool's jokes her son Rhys was playing on her all day.
"What kind of April Fool's jokes?" I asked.
"Like asking us if we want a piece of pizza," she said. "And when I say yes, he holds out his hand and it's empty. He's done it a bunch of times."
"Sounds like almost-seven-year-old humor to me," I said.
This is one of the ways I'm coping, my eighteenth day into social distancing—talking on the phone with my daughter while
she's outside with her kids, one in a stroller, two on bikes, doing her own coping.
And I'm coping by reading my favorite poems. Like this perfect-for-April-Fool's-Day poem by Naomi Shihab Nye, from her book 19 Varieties of Gazelle: Poems of the Middle East.
WHAT KIND OF FOOL AM I?
He sang with abandon,
combing his black, black hair.
Each morning in the shower,
first in Arabic, rivery ripples
of song carrying him back
to his first beloved land,
then in English, where his repertoire
was short. No kind at all! we’d all shout,
throwing ourselves into the brisk arc
of his cologne for a morning kiss.
But he gave us freedom to be fools
if we needed to, which we certainly
would later, which we all do now and then,
perhaps a father’s greatest gift –
that blessing.
~ Naomi Shihab Nye
A little foolishness is good for us, even—or perhaps especially—now, with the news getting more dire by the day. My foolishness today was taking a dance break from my hours at the computer to Ella Fitzgerald's rendition of "I Want to Be Happy." Music (and dancing, no matter how badly) helps me to cope, too.
But there are many moments when facing the grief I'm feeling is a pathway to coping with my tumultuous emotions. If you are feeling out-of-sorts, shaky, cranky, discombobulated, check out this wonderfully helpful article from Harvard Business Review shared with me by my friend and poet extraordinaire Irene Blair Honeycutt called "That Discomfort You're Feeling Is Grief." (Speaking of the acknowledgment of grief as a way of coping, don't miss this wise, moving Charlotte Readers Podcast by Irene, "Beneath the Bamboo Sky.")
Scroll on down for my hands-down favorite poem on coping, "Cope, Hard C," from a book called Using Poetry in Therapeutic Settings: A Resource Manual & Poetry Collection by the Vital Signs Poetry Project of The Children's Inn at NIH. I was fortunate to attend a workshop with the editor, Davi Walders, at a conference on Poetry and Medicine held by Duke University some
years ago, and was inspired, no, awed, by the work they do. at The Children's Inn. You can read about it in this article by The Washington Post called "Power of Poetry Helps Parents of Sick Children Cope."
And if you'd like to engage in some poetry-writing yourself this month, check out Poetry Rocks!, my online course, below or here.
Wishing you peace and grace, health and strength,
Online
WordPlay
\POETRY ROCKS!
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* a purpose, so you’re clear what you will learn
* background information when helpful
* “how-to” directions to create a poem
* an example that illustrates the poetry tool in action
* a short reflection to solidify the concepts covered
* “Hone Your Craft” suggestions for further exploration
* a short reflection to solidify the concepts covered
- A PDF document of each tool that you can print or save on your computer
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WHAT PARTICIPANTS SAY ABOUT POETRY ROCKS
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Cope, hard C
by
Gayle Brandeis
Cope sounds a lot like a word
that starts with H.
Don’t let that fool you.
They are not the same,
even though hope may trail along
for the ride, the way a tail
streams behind a stingray.
Listen. The words will tell you
their stories: Cope, hard C,
sounds more solid than that breathy H,
hope, and it is, it is the present,
hope empty as the future.
You stand before a wave.
You hope the wave won’t hit you.
You hope the tide will change
its course, but the wave still
crashes over your body.
You cope with being wet.
I used to think I could not handle loss.
I used to think grief would drown me
in its salty wake. I used to hope
I’d never have to feel that water
blast into my nostrils and ears,
smack against my chest, but I have,
and I do, and I will, and that hard C
has opened me to a larger sea
of feeling, a sea with deeper
colors and more fantastic animals
than I ever could have hoped.
~ Gayle Brandeis
from Using Poetry in Therapeutic Settings: A Resource Manual & Poetry Collection, The Vital Signs Poetry Project of The Children’s Inn at NIH.
WordPlay Now! Writing Prompt
This is WordPlay—so why not revel in the power and potential of one good word after another? This week, it's “cope."
PROMPT:
Write your own poem about coping, with the coronavirus pandemic, or any other hard situation faced by you or one of your characters. YOU CAN'T DO THIS WRONG. Don't make any assumptions or judgments about what a poem is supposed to look or sound like. You can do anything with any words you choose.
- Read "Cope, hard C" out loud.
- Name the situation that you are coping with.
- Close your eyes and take several deep breaths.
- Allow yourself to feel what you're feeling.
- What words and images come to mind?
- Open your eyes, and jot down any words and images that come to mind for you.
- Set a timer for five minutes.
- Begin with the words "You cope with . . ." or "You cope by . . ." and keep going until the timer goes off. Write in phrases or sentences, lines, or in paragraphs—whatever feels best to you.
- When the timer goes off, stop.
- If you like, tinker and rearrange your poem in any way you like.
It's fun to play with prompts in community with fellow writers, and to be able to share the results when you're done. You can find out about WordPlay classes, workshops, and retreats here.
MAUREEN RYAN GRIFFIN, an award-winning poetry and nonfiction writer, is the author of Spinning Words into Gold, a Hands-On Guide to the Craft of
Writing, a grief workbook entitled I Will Never Forget You, and three collections of poetry, Ten Thousand Cicadas Can't Be Wrong, This Scatter of Blossoms and When the Leaves Are in the Water.
She believes, as author Julia Cameron says, “We are meant to midwife dreams for one another.” Maureen also believes that serious “word
work” requires serious WordPlay, as play is how we humans best
learn—and perform. What she loves best is witnessing all the other dreams that come true for her clients along the way. Language, when used with intentionality and focus, is, after all, serious fuel for joy. Here's to yours!
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