[WordPlay Word-zine] What haunting "ghosts" can help your writing?

Published: Mon, 10/24/16


The WordPlay Word-zine
Volume V, Issue 43
October 24, 2016
Word of the Week: ghosts
Dear ,

I couldn't resist sharing these words of writer Erin Rose Belair's from an essay in Glimmer Train with you today, with only a week to go until Halloween: "My stories come from little obsessions, ghosts that won’t leave me alone." What a perfect comparison—ghosts and obsessions.

I was taken back to my one of the first books on writing I ever read, Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within, in which Natalie Goldberg devotes an entire chapter to "Obsessions,” which do, in fact, haunt us.

We all have memories (and other things) we obsess about, whether we are writers or not. Goldberg asserts that, since your obsessions will “probably take over your life whether you want them to or not . . . you ought to get them to work for you.” Are you on good speaking terms with your obsessions? 
 
One of my obsessions is my mother. I never expected—or wanted—to write about her. In fact, if someone had told me when I was a teenager that many of my most successful pieces of writing would be about my mother, I would have called her a liar and run from the room screaming. Goldberg’s advice nudged me to put into words the tangled emotions wound up in my relationship with my mother. With that rich skein, I’ve knitted poem after poem, essay upon essay.
 
Writers do write about their obsessions; any savvy reader can tell that’s so. You may want to sleuth through your favorite writers’ books and figure out what their obsessions are. I love poet and memoirist Mark Doty’s work. Art museums are clearly an obsession of his, and he’s put that obsession to use in his books Still Life with Oysters and Lemon and Seeing Veniceboth beautiful meditations on the relationship between art and the human spirit.
 
Why not use this week to mull over your obsessions? Erin Rose Belair's essay "On Making Good with Your Ghosts"and this week's promptwill get you started.

Love and light,
 
Maureen
 
P.S. Great news if you've been wanting to write at the beach! We've had a cancellation for the Coastal Writing Retreat November 11th through 13th. There is currently one spot left. Details below and here. Call the Sunset Inn now to reserve if you'd like to come.
 
We've also had a cancellation for our Gift of Memoir Writing Retreat on November 4th through 6th. There is currently one spot left. Details below and here. Call the Sunset Inn now to reserve if you'd like to come.
 

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WHERE: The Sunset Inn, 9 North Shore Dr., Sunset Beach, NC 28468 
WHEN: Friday, November 11 – Sunday, November 13, 2016*

TO REGISTER: Contact the Sunset Inn at 888-575-1001 (if you would like to handpick your room, view your choices here first, then call). Because the Inn is holding rooms for you, our participants, they are blocked off as unavailable online. Register soon by phone — this is a popular event and there is only 1 space available.

*Also, please let the Inn know when you call if you are interested in the bonus opportunity to stay Sunday night, November 13th, at half price.

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Featured Writer

Erin Rose Belair
 
Erin Rose Belair is a multi-genre writer based in Southern California. She is a recent graduate of Boise State's fiction MFA program where she wrote her first collection of short stories, Vinegar. Erin is currently working as a travel writer and tinkering with a collection of nonfiction essays. She is interested in the vast territory and complexities of love, the fault lines of heartache, and what sort of moments shape us into the particular people we become. "Rare Items from the Universe" is her first published story.
Photo and bio from http://www.glimmertrain.com/bulletins/essays/b116belair.php


Featured W​​​​​​riting


On Making Good with Your Ghosts


by

Erin Rose Belair


My stories come from little obsessions, ghosts that won’t leave me alone: maraschino cherries, a dead deer in a river in Montana, something my 4th grade teacher told me at first snow fall, the smell of the soap in my grandmother’s bathroom after she died. I used to think stories had to come from some higher order, some grand tale. But I only started writing stories when I learned how to make peace with those ghosts, when I learned how to listen to what I was already telling myself. They come seeping out the cracks of the life you already have...

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WordPlay Now! Writing Prompt

This is WordPlayso why not revel in the power and potential of one good word after another? This week, it's "ghosts." 

PROMPT:​ 

Begin a list of your obsessions. Here are a few ways to get started:
  • Read Erin Rose Belair's essay "On Making Good with Your Ghosts: if you haven't yet (see above)
  • Keep a running tally of your thoughts for a few days, and notice what keeps cropping up. 
  • Consider what stories you find yourself telling over and over.
  • Notice, when you read, what feels familiar, what you're reminded of. 
  • You can also ask the people you spend time with what your obsessions are. Believe me, they know.
Once you have a few things on your list, pick one of them and create a poem, essay or story about it. You may want to return to this list from time to time, to add to it and/or to pull writing ideas.

It's fun to play with prompts in community with fellow writers, and to be able to share the results when you're done. You can find out about WordPlay classes, workshops, and retreats here. 

MAUREEN RYAN GRIFFIN, an award-winning poetry and nonfiction writer, is the author of Spinning Words into Gold, a Hands-On Guide to the Craft of Writing, a grief workbook entitled I Will Never Forget You, and three collections of poetry, Ten Thousand Cicadas Can't Be Wrong, This Scatter of Blossoms and When the Leaves Are in the Water. One of her long-held dreams came true in July of 2015 when Garrison Keillor read one of her poems on The Writer's Almanac. She believes, as author Julia Cameron says, "We are meant to midwife dreams for one another."

Maureen also believes that serious "word work" requires serious WordPlay, as play is how we humans best learn—and perform. What she loves best is witnessing all the other dreams that come true for her clients along the way. Language, when used with intentionality and focus, is, after all, serious fuel for joy. Here's to yours!

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