[WordPlay Word-zine] "What's in a name?"

Published: Mon, 01/11/16


The WordPlay Word-zine
Volume V, Issue 2
January 11, 2016

Word of the Week: name​​
Dear ,

Over time, my husband Richard and I have developed a number of pet names for one another, and since our grandson's been born, we've lavished a number of them on him, too, but when I read One Hundred Names for Love, Diane Ackerman's inspiring story of helping her husband make an "against-all-odds return to conversing and writing after a stroke that left him with global aphasia, I realize we have been missing out on all manner of possibilities for what's in a name! (See the excerpt below for some examples, O Gorgeous Moon Ascending.) 

It's no wonder that One Hundred Names for Love was a finalist for both the Pulitzer Prize and the National Book Circle Critics Award. As Donna Seaman wrote in her Booklist starred review, it's "a gorgeously engrossing, affecting, sweetly funny, and mind-opening love story of crisis, determination, creativity, and repair." It's also a book that answers Romeo's question, "What's in a name?" in lavish measure.

For the names we call our loved ones, our characters, even ourselves, have power... Check out the featured writing and prompt below and see if you don't agree.

Love and light,

Maureen

Upcoming WordPlay

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This class is designed to fulfill your writing dreams and projects. You’ll set goals and support structures and watch your writing flow! You’ll also get feedback on your work (any genre) and learn revision tools and methods. Each week, writing prompts will generate material for new writing or further a piece in process, whatever your preferred genre. Through examples of accomplished writers, you’ll learn techniques to aid you right where you are in the process. 

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WHERE: The Sunset Inn, 9 North Shore Dr., Sunset Beach, NC 28468 
WHEN: Friday, February 19 – Sunday, February 21, 2016*

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WordPlay Featured Writing


An excerpt from Chapter 26 

of

One Hundred Names for Love

by

Diane Ackerman


“MA BÊTE, MA BELLE BÊTE,” MY BEAST, MY BEAUTIFUL BEAST, I sweet-talked to Paul one day, quoting from a movie we both knew well.

In Jean Cocteau’s exquisite 1946 film La Belle et la Bête, a rose-adoring, art-collecting, sensitive beast is the avatar for a prince, whom an evil fairy has turned into a hideous monster (until he can find true love, despite his ugliness). It was based on a popular eighteenth-century European fairy tale about a search for a lost husband. We both adored the magical film, which we'd seen eleven times, often enough for Paul to decipher the Latin on the back of the Beast’s chair, which reads: "All men are beasts when they don't have love."

“Ma Bête, ma belle Bête," I whispered.  

Automatically, Paul responded, also quoting [from the film]: "Je suis un monster. Je n’aime pas les compliments.” I am a monster. I don’t like compliments.

Just as I’d sometimes called him “ma Bête” in bygone days, he’d sometimes called me “ma Belle,” but that had been one of the simplest of all his fanciful names for me. For him, playing in the sandbox of language had meant building ornate castles. As well as his dictation was going and his speech improving, he still had difficulty combining words to form images. And he deeply lamented the loss of decades of daily pet names and endearments. He’d loved creating and bestowing names of all sorts—wildly whimsical, just feasible, or apropos: ∏, Moon, Paprika Cheeks, Bush-kitten. We'd both relished the Native American spirit of naming, in which a Hopi female might be called "Beautiful Badger Going Over the Hill," "Child of Importance," "Spider Woman at Middle-age," "Butterfly Sitting on a Flower," "Overflowing Spring," "Beautiful Clouds Arising"; and a male "Where the Wind Blows Down the Gap," "Short Rainbow," "Throne for the Clouds," "Joined Together by Water," "He Who Whistles."

There was a time, long ago, when all names described personal attributes, origin, or the hopes of parents, when names could be allegories that determined someone's fate. A time when naming was magic, knowledge, possession, and a shaman could inflict injury by mishandling someone's name. A time when you only shared your true name with someone you completely trusted. What spells Paul and I had cast with our secret names for one another.

Passing by the back door, when Liz and Paul were wading at the shallow end of the pool, I heard her ask him, "Do you have a pet name for Diane?"


~ Diane Ackerman, One Hundred Names for Love, Chapter 26
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WordPlay Now! Writing Prompt

This is WordPlay—​so why not revel in the power and potential of one good word after another? This week, it's "name."


PROMPT:

Ready to do some bona fide wordplay? Pick someone you are (or one of your characters is) very fond of. Now come up with ten pet names for him/her. Pull out the stops, taking inspiration from the excerpt from One Hundred Names for Love above, or here on WordPlay's Recommended Memoir page.

Now, if you're up for a challenge, weave at least one of these "names for love" into a passage of prose or poetry.



It's fun to play with prompts in community with fellow writers, and to be able to share the results when you're done. You can find out about WordPlay classes, workshops, and retreats here. 

MAUREEN RYAN GRIFFIN, an award-winning poetry and nonfiction writer, is the author of Spinning Words into Gold, a Hands-On Guide to the Craft of Writing, a grief workbook entitled I Will Never Forget You, and two collections of poetry, This Scatter of Blossoms and When the Leaves Are in the Water. She believes, as author Julia Cameron says, "We are meant to midwife dreams for one another."

Maureen also believes that serious "word work" requires serious WordPlay, as play is how we humans best learn
—​and perform. What she loves best is witnessing all the other dreams that come true for her clients along the way. Language, when used with intentionality and focus, is, after all, serious fuel for joy. Here's to yours!

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Maureen Ryan Griffin
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