[WordPlay Word-zine] Get competent. Get passionate.

Published: Wed, 10/16/13


The WordPlay Word-zine

Volume II, Issue 31
September 11, 2013


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Do you have to choose between being competent and being passionate? WordPlayer 
and Founder of Startup Café Lori Collins, playing devil's advocate, suggests this is the case in a recent blog post she wrote for her entrepreneur readership and shares in this week's zine. And you can read her counterpoint blog post that argues for passion here:

What do you think comes first, passion or competence? Does one lead to the other? 

As a writing teacher and coach committed to making the biggest difference I can for my clients, I explore these questions every day. Data is everywhere, but I like to go to the source :).


Watching my four-month-old grandson Rhys get more and more competent at grasping what he reaches for, I vote for passion!

But maybe you believe, as Lori states, that "Passion Is Over-rated." Read on! Below  Lori's blog post is your writing prompt inspired by the word "competent." On the way down the page you'll see a quick list of September WordPlay offerings designed to increase your competence -- and your passion -- for writing. Full details are available at http://wordplaynow.com/current.htm.

And speaking of writing competence, my longtime writer friend and fellow writing teacher Gilda Morina Syverson, along with Jodi Helmer,is offering two workshops on publishing later this fall. Details below.

Here's to competence and passion!

Love and light, 


Maureen


WordPlay Success Story


"[Maureen's] teaching gifts, combined with the love she brings to every class, have helped me move forward and challenged me to dig deep..."

Meet Lori Collins

Lori is the Founder of Startup Café, the blog where entrepreneurs get to know each other, share war stories and make friends and business partners. She built new businesses at American Express, Fidelity Investments, Bank of America, and LendingTree and has led two financial services startups. Focusing on social entrepreneurs, Lori blends her passion for social impact with a love of startups.

Lori currently serves as a strategic adviser and coach for emerging ventures. Her writing has been featured in Ventureprise.org/blog/, DetailedBlock.com, and Examiner.com.

WHAT LORI SAYS ABOUT WordPlay:

Maureen has been such a great  supporter and coach, helping me tap into my "inner writer". I've kept a journal since I was 19, so obviously writing is an outlet for me. Maureen has helped me connect with that outlet for my personal enjoyment and, on a professional level, with my blog, which has grown from a trickle to as much as 700 viewers per month (and growing). I've also very much enjoyed attending WordPlay seasonal writing retreats -- one day get-aways that spur an outpouring from the pen.  

You can connect with Lori here:

www.startupcafe.org - please subscribe!

www.Facebook.com/StartupCafeOrg - please "like"!


Featured Writing

"Passion is Over-rated"

by

Lori Collins


Your passion is a pipe dream. Best focus on your abilities. So goes the advice of Cal Newport, author of So Good They Can't Ignore You. Taking a contrarian view of the popular mantra to "follow your passion," Newport pans this advice as dangerous and cites case after case of people who followed their passions with no skill or business plan to back them up, finding quite little of their dreams.

I was relieved to read Newport's view. I was starting to think it was just me who felt like smacking every person who asked me "What's your passion?" Well, I tend to be passionate about many things. I love modern dance. I collect art. I adore my nephews. Cooking and foreign films make a hot date. I get apoplectic on a ski slope. No dust settles on my passport. My house is a virtual shrine to Africa. Can I make money on any of this?

So let's review where I've actually made some money. The mortgage business: not a passion. The mutual fund business: sort of a passion, once I figured out 12b-1 fees. Flight insurance: definitely not a passion.

Competency First, Passion Follows

Newport argues that passion follows competency -- once you're good at something, you start to love it. This sounds like the mother of an arranged marriage saying to her daughter, "He's good for you. You'll learn to love him."  As passionless as this sounds, sometimes those kinds of mothers are right. I wasn't in love with finance.  I was always good at finance, but loved marketing.  I got into financial services marketing to solve the dilemma. But mostly I was good at staring into the unknown and making it rain money. Diving in and learning new industries, making clients happy, getting people who hated or feared my company to come around. The product was almost an after-thought to the challenge. Finance paid the rent and got me those stamps on my passport....

Case in Point: Steve Jobs

As Newport tells the tale, Steve Jobs wasn't particularly passionate about computers before he started Apple.  He majored in Western history and dance, with Eastern mysticism on the side. He teamed up with Wozniack for a while, but then disappeared for several months to hang out at a commune.  When Jobs finally saw an opportunity in technology, he got Woz to build it in his free time. Jobs just liked to sell.  His dreams were small until his products started generating cash. Then passion began to set in.

The Path to Success

Here's Newport's advice in a nutshell: Figure out what works for you, what you can offer the world, and put in the hours needed to develop your skills. The idea that the world will conspire to support your dreams just because you commit to them doesn't always work. Look around at folks scraping by. Don't they have passions?  Look around at folks succeeding wildly. Are you emulating people who are passionate or those who know what they're doing? Choose the latter.

(Don't miss her counterpoint perspective herehttp://startupcafe.org/?p=445

WordPlay Now! Writing Prompt

This is WordPlay -- so why not revel in the power and potential of one good word after another? This week, it's "competence." 

What are your (or someone else's, real or fictional) greatest areas of competence? Make a quick list. Then pick one skill/area of competence and write about it, exploring these questions for yourself or a character, real or fictional:

  • When did your competence at this skill or area of expertise first exhibit itself? (If you don't remember, write about a time you remember it being present.) Describe this moment/event in as much detail as possible.
  • How have important people in your life responded/reacted to your competence in this skill/area?
  • Is your competence something you value, or something you take for granted?
  • How has this competence served you?

You may have more questions you'd like to explore -- keep going. Then take what you've discovered and craft a scene, essay, poem, or some other piece of writing.

Would you enjoy playing with this kind of writing in a warm, encouraging community of writers, as well as getting feedback on your own work, with motivation, inspiration, and knowledge of craft thrown in? Then " Spinning Words into Gold," which begins Wednesday, September 25, may be for you. To find out more, and/or register, go to: 
http://lifelong.queens.edu/CourseStatus.awp?&course=13FPESWG.

Two Publishing Workshops


For more information, contact: gmsyverson@bellsouth.net

Registration can be mailed to

         Gilda Morina Syverson, P.O. Box 1307, Cornelius, NC 28031

Please specify which course you are registering for. Or use PayPal links below the course description.


Taking Your Essay or Story from the Page to Publication

          co-partners Jodi Helmer & Gilda Morina Syverson

You have captured an experience and committed it to paper - now it's time to get it out of your notebook and into the pages of a newspaper, magazine or literary journal. In this workshop, we'll walk you through the process of publishing your essays. You'll learn what editors are looking for, how to submit your work and where to find the best markets for publishing essays.

Date: Saturday, September 28th, 10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.

Cost: $50

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Selling Your Story

          co-partners Jodi Helmer & Gilda Morina Syverson

After years of writing and rewriting, you're thinking about publishing your memoir. Not sure where to start? We're here to help! In this workshop, you'll learn the difference between self-publishing and traditional publishing (and how to choose which path is right for you), how to research publishers and agents and what it takes to get your book on bookstore shelves.

Date: Saturday, November 16th, 10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.

Cost: $50

 https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=NNCU22QJDTTXC

MAUREEN RYAN GRIFFIN, an award-winning poetry and nonfiction writer, is the author of Spinning Words into Gold, a Hands-On Guide to the Craft of Writing, a grief workbook entitled I Will Never Forget You , and two collections of poetry, This Scatter of Blossoms and When the Leaves Are in the Water. She believes, as author Julia Cameron says, "We are meant to midwife dreams for one another."

Maureen also believes that serious "word work" requires serious WordPlay, as play is how we humans best learn -- and perform. What she loves best is witnessing all the other dreams that come true for her clients along the way. Language, when used with intentionality and focus, is, after all, serious fuel for joy. Here's to yours!

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