[WordPlay Word-zine] Thank you for being a friend

Published: Fri, 08/30/13


The WordPlay Word-zine

Volume II, Issue 29
August 30, 2013


Word of the Week: friend

Dear
,

This Word-zine issue is dedicated to my longtime friend Nora McCormish, with whom I just had the pleasure of exploring her new "home" of Wyoming, including Yellowstone National Park, where this photo was taken. 

Nora and I met when we were both waitresses at Elby's Big Boy Restaurant in Erie, Pennsylvania, back in the summer of 1974, so we are now just one year shy of forty years of friendship. We came of age together and, while we haven't lived in the same state since shortly after we met, we've gotten together at least once almost every year, most often for an annual camping trip on the Blue Ridge Parkway that always included copious games of Scrabble.
Nora, thank you for being a friend who, through your wise counsel, clear vision, quick wit, gritty practicality, and great taste -- not to mention your vast culinary and artistic talents, has made my life both measurably and immeasurably richer. 

And thank you for not only humoring me (as you so often have!) by posing in front of this sign on the Beartooth Highway that totally cracked me up, but also singing a zest-filled rendition of The Carpenters' hit "Top of the World." You are a true friend and a blessing indeed!  

Now, , I have a question for you. Can you find what's missing in this picture?

Read on for a writing prompt about one of your own friends, and to read the lyrics of (and listen to) Andrew Gold's 1978 classic "Thank You for Being a Friend", a song that expresses beautifully the way many of us feel about our friends.

And, if you're in Charlotte, I hope you'll consider joining me for Under Construction, which starts this Thursday! If you'd like to discuss whether this class is a good fit for you, shoot me an email at info@wordplaynow.com and we'll work out a time to do that. A number of other choices are available at  www.wordplaynow.com as well.

Wishing you and your friends much joy, 

Maureen

Upcoming WordPlay


UNDER CONSTRUCTION: YOUR WRITING 
(Fulfilling Writing Dreams & Goals; Creating New Writing; 
Revising & Polishing Your Writing)

This class is designed to fulfill your writing dreams and projects. You'll set goals and support structures and watch your writing flow! You'll also get feedback on your work (any genre) and learn revision tools. Jumpstart your pen and receive the knowledge and inspiration you need to write, whatever your preferred genre. Each week, writing prompts will generate material for new writing or further a piece in process. Through examples of accomplished writers, you'll learn techniques to aid you right where you are in the process. $397/12 sessions includes class audios. You'll need a copy of Spinning Words into Gold, available for $23.54 in class.

WHERE: Covenant Rec Center, 1000 East Morehead St., Charlotte, 28204.

WHEN: Thursdays, 7 - 9 pm, September 5 - December, 2013
(No class on September 19, October 31, November 7, or November 28) 

Want to come? Just print out and mail in the attached form or use PayPal or credit card with this link:  

Under Construction Fall Series (12 sessions for $397 -- includes class audios and resources) 


See http://wordplaynow.com/current.htm for more offerings, including The Gift of Memoir, Spinning Words into Gold, Delicious Memories, and Every Picture Holds a Story. 

Featured Writing

"Thank You for Being a Friend"
by
Andrew Gold


You can listen to Andrew Gold's 1978 classic hit here, as well as read the lyrics: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jzrq52qaXZI

WordPlay Now! Writing Prompt

This is WordPlay -- so why not revel in the power and potential of one good word after another? This week, it's "friend." 

I can't think of a better writing tool for the word "friend" than the "Hello It's Me," one of the thirteen tools in my writing guide Spinning Words into Gold. (You can check it out, and even order it, on my still-a-work-in-progress website:
http://www.wordplaynow.com/wordpresstest/books-3/spinning-words-into-gold/. And while you're at it, feel free to send me feedback on the website!)   

The "Hello It's Me" is very simple: just pick someone to write to, real or imaginary, known or unknown, from any time or place, and write directly to that someone about any subject(s) you choose, using the pronouns "you", "your", and "yours".  This time, in honor of our word of the week, pick a close friend and write to him or her. A letter is a perfect form for this, and so is a letter poem. Or, for that matter, a song, like Andrew Gold's "Thank you for being a friend." And why not mail this to your friend after you've finished? 

In addition to letting your friend know how much s/he means to you, who knows what could grow from this writing? After attending a talk by acclaimed novelist Isabel Allende, another friend of mine, Vivé Griffith, wrote me to say, "I was struck by how at least two of [Allende's] novels began as letters: House of the Spirits as a letter to her grandfather; Paula as a letter to her daughter Paula, who was in a coma...."

The Hello-It's-Me technique of writing directly to a particular person -- a you -- is astounding in its power to draw readers in. Writing to a you has power for the writer as well. Somehow, when what we write is aimed right for a particular person's eyes (and heart), we write with more passion, more authority. 

Would you enjoy playing with this kind of writing in a warm, encouraging community of writers, as well as getting feedback on your own work, with motivation, inspiration, and knowledge of craft thrown in? Then "Under Construction," which begins Thursday, September 5, is for you. You can find out more about Under Construction and other classes here. 

MAUREEN RYAN GRIFFIN, an award-winning poetry and nonfiction writer, is the author of Spinning Words into Gold, a Hands-On Guide to the Craft of Writing, a grief workbook entitled I Will Never Forget You, and two collections of poetry, This Scatter of Blossoms and When the Leaves Are in the Water. She believes, as author Julia Cameron says, "We are meant to midwife dreams for one another."

Maureen also believes that serious "word work" requires serious WordPlay, as play is how we humans best learn -- and perform. What she loves best is witnessing all the other dreams that come true for her clients along the way. Language, when used with intentionality and focus, is, after all, serious fuel for joy. Here's to yours!

WordPlay
Maureen Ryan Griffin
Email: info@wordplaynow.com
Website: www.wordplaynow.com
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